When a Jewish man sees a woman he would like to be his marriage companion, he gives gifts to her Father and after dinner he pours two glasses of wine, gives one glass to his intended and if she drinks from it, she is entering a marriage contract with him, if she doesn’t drink the glass, she is saying, I don’t want to marry you, the man then leaves and never comes back again.By drinking the wine she is publicaly declaring that she accepts him as a Husband and will wait and be prepared to go at any time day or night, leaving her family and all she knows to be a wife to him and in the Jewish Publics tradition, they are married and the only way to stop that is by a Public declaration of a writ of divorcement. The man then says I go to prepare a place for us that we can be toghter, he returns and he and his Father start to prepare aplace for them to reside ( probably a room on his Fathers House). His Father is the one thatt determines when the abode is ready and he is the one that tells his son to go get his wife, the man then with a lot of friends goes to her house and blows a Trumpet, when she hears the Trumpet she immediately goes to meet him and travels to her new abode with him, day or night. When they arrive at his fathers House, there is then a marrigae feist that last seven days with lots of food and wine, the Jews now how to party.
When Jesus sees some one crying out for salvation or someone he wants to have as a spritual bride, he goes to his Father and his gift is his sacrifice that will restore a relationship between his Father and the intended, if this person agrees, they are agreeing to wait until he has prepared a dwelling (in my Fathers House are many Rooms if that were not so I would have told you) place for them. When his Father says all is ready go get your bride, he decends from Heaven with a multitude of friends and plows a Trumpet, there is then a marriage feist that lasts seven years ( Gods number for completion) Where the groom girds himself and serves the participants that are there, What a party that will be, one I hope no one misses out on. If Jesus has not come by to offer the wine to you, just ask him to, as his will is that all will come to his Fathers House for ever and he is not limited by ability or resourses.